Nitpicking is inevitable in any relationship. The longer your relationship lasts (and hopefully it lasts forever), the honeymoon phase will wear off and you will find yourself getting into a routine.
At first, the things that you each do in the beginning may seem cute. For example, my husband left the toilet seat up and one time, I fell in while in the dark. We had a nice laugh about it, but after 2 years of marriage, I’m a little annoyed (like clockwork) with having to put it down in the middle of the night. Although, that’s just one small thing if each of these small things adds up, does it become a big thing?
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